How to STOP giving your power away to women.
Identify WHERE and how you are doing it.
WHAT it’s costing you.
And HOW you can reclaim your authentic Male Power!
Read this special article and learn how to start unlocking YOUR true authentic self, and becoming the MAN you were meant to be!
Let me be brutally honest with you brother. It’s time to stop playing into the attention game. It’s 100% a GAME, nothing more. And it’s run by women. Therefore YOU, as a fellow man, have no real contributions or rewards to gain from playing this game. Period.
I know it’s hard to NOT see it because it’s EVERYWHERE. Women are out and about quick to show their ass, strut their half-naked body in front of you, it’s all tease tease tease. In person, on social media, wherever, and it’s all for us to PAY attention to. Even when they claim that it’s not, that it’s just for THEM to dress this way. To act this way. To behave like nymphs, just for show. It’s not for them, brother. It’s for US men to feed their egos and boost up their daily intake of attention by falling to our knees, in awe, in admiration of their so-called beauty. And we continue to FALL for it everyday.
What we need to be clear on is this.
Women, even the most attractive of them, are still just people. That’s IT.
What we have in our current times is women boldly flaunting their physicality and sexual flirtations toward men with zero want or desire to CONNECT with us. It’s purely to feed their own egos. And men, we can’t keep falling for it. It’s not helping ANY of us to be of this type of service. All we get for this is a society of egotistical and narcissistic women who truly believe that they are Queens and Goddesses that should be praised and worshiped JUST because they may have a pretty face or a nice body, and are eager to show it off. But why would they believe this?
Why would they be so bold as to BELIEVE they’re actual Queens and Goddesses??
Because MEN tell them they are!
Men, you cannot continue to play this game. You can’t continue the routine of scrolling through your phones and drooling over every girl who likes to tease the camera. You can’t continue to shower them with likes and hearts and grandiose compliments, hoping they respond through the screen. This isn’t the way the dynamic of man/woman is supposed to be. This isn’t evolution. This is a problem.
It’s an attention game. Nothing more. And WE’RE not winning.
THE GAME NEEDS TO STOP.
Maybe this sounds petty to you. Like it’s just a way to pass the time, and there’s no real harm in showing some attention to a pretty girl online or even in person. Right?
I beg to differ. It is a problem, a real one, and for more reasons. Here’s a few…
One, putting yourself in the position of admirer, of voyeur, of “fan” for a woman just because she may be attractive is not a healthy role for you to get comfortable in. If continued for too long, this can TRAIN your brain and body to look at women from the sidelines, as something distant that YOU cannot attain. This is putting yourself on the OUTSIDE and quite frankly, you’re voluntarily counting yourself out of any REAL chances of having a connection with a woman. Even if your intention is just sex. It’s hard to find a willing candidate when you’re looking from afar and hollering out compliments like she’s a superstar and you’re just a paying attendee to her SHOW.
Two, again in relation to admiration, keeping yourself as willing and able to drop to your knees and do anything to get the girl is NOT the way. It never will be. At best, it’s the way to get yourself USED and abused. Very dangerous if you get involved with the wrong woman on these terms. Wrong woman, meaning a predator, a user, one who thrives on weak men. If you suck up to a woman of this type, she sees you as easy prey.
Three, women who continue to play this game with men are not only hurting US by endlessly teasing with zero intention of connecting with us on a real level beyond the fake likes and praise. They are also hurting the VALUE of all women with this. It’s cheapening the playing field. If all a woman is good for is teasing and flaunting her looks, what does this say about the woman’s spirit? Is it really just for surface value? Nothing more? If continued, we’ll have a full generation of disconnection between us. With men that don’t respect women. And women, these types of women, already don’t respect men. This is very dangerous to our future as the human race. Male and female.
So, what can YOU do?
You, we, can do a lot, starting RIGHT NOW.
It all begins with us and what we do in our daily lives.
If you’re on social media a few times or more throughout your average day. Start observing your habits. Do you scroll just looking for women to catch your attention? Do you have certain online crushes you attend to regularly? It’s ok if you do. It’s part of the appeal of social media and online life in the first place. But, how much time and energy are you spending here each day?
Observe.
Are you feeding likes and compliments to certain women again and again?
In person, maybe at work or when you’re out socially, at a bar let’s say. Are you quick to go into “awe” mode with a woman?
I want you to start observing your behavior as if you’re on the outside. If you catch yourself giving unearned praise or compliments to an attractive woman, stop. Hold it back and try to keep your cool. Giving out praise and admiration too quickly is suspicious behavior anyway. Women may smile or act like they appreciate it but inside, they’re usually writing you off as desperate or thinking there must be something wrong with you if you’re giving up too much attention that easily.
Keeping composure is always best. Step back. Let her EARN your admiration. Again, a woman, just because she’s a woman, is no more a Goddess than a man, just because he’s a man, is a King.
Keep it in perspective and watch how your experiences around women change.
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